Women, please note: This article was written by a man, for men. If you read it, please do not take offense. Remember that men and women are different, they communicate differently, and they have different goals and motivations. Thank you for your interest!

Conscious Loving for Men
by William Van Vechten

So why would a man want to learn about conscious loving, anyway?

Sex!

In the commercials, at the checkout, in the movies, and on television. We're constantly being told about more and better sex, but who's getting it? The men who practice conscious loving are getting it. Why? Because if you can understand and apply the concepts of conscious loving:

• Women will be more attracted to you, more generous with you, and more giving towards you.
  
  
• You can be cooperative partners with your spouse or girlfriend instead of being angry and struggling for power.
  
  
• You and your partner can tell each other honestly what's on your minds instead of expecting the other to be a mind reader.
  
  
• Enhanced communication, more desire and increased generosity can lead to the greatest sex you've ever experienced.
  
  
• Whether you're married or single, your love life will likely improve significantly.

Are there other benefits? Definitely! And they aren't limited to romantic relationships, either.

• Get along more effectively with your parents, family, and children.
  
  
• Enrich your relationships with friends.
  
  
• Help people to like you more and treat you better.
  
  
• Advance your career.

Just what is conscious loving, anyway?

It's a different approach to relationship, where you make a committed effort to understand yourself, your partner, and your pattern of relating to each other. You learn new communication skills, new sexual techniques, new ways of problem solving, and other effective tools to improve results with people.

The practice of conscious loving requires effort, both now and for the rest of your life. Is it worth it? Absolutely!

Do you wait for your partner to try it out with you? Well, we believe that when a couple dives into this together, the results can be remarkable. But you can also do it on your own. Your whole life could change for the better!

I invite you to keep an open mind. More than that, I invite you to soak this up. Learn all you can, and try it out. If it doesn't work for you, then drop it. But give it a chance. I am dedicated to living and sharing about conscious loving because of the awesome positive changes that it has made possible in my life. I believe you can achieve incredible results as well.

Some of the possibilities:

• Find the love of your life.
  
  
• Create the kind of relationships you always dreamed of.
  
  
• Reduce anger, mistrust, and struggle.
  
  
• Increase creativity and self-esteem.
  
  
• Expand the joyfulness and contentment in your life.

What is the goal of this site?

With this website, we are attempting to bring together the latest and most extensive wisdom, knowledge, and teachings on loving and relationships from a wide variety of sources.

We want to help support the community of people who want to change their lives and their relationships. We hope to make this site a source for information and products, and to make it an entertaining place to learn about and cultivate a new way of life. Our site will also be changing and growing, so come back often!

How can this website help?

To get started, I especially recommend these departments:

Articles: We're gathering articles that give you solid information in a concise format. These articles are written by authors who are experts in their fields. You can use our searching capabilities to find keywords or phrases that you are interested in. I encourage you to keep your mind open to new ideas.

Resources & Links: If you want learn from or speak with someone who understands the concepts, or if you'd like to attend workshops to be guided in experimenting with the techniques, look at Resources. The people and programs listed here are excellent. And they're nice people. Check them out.

Advice: You can submit questions to our advice column through our forum. Then check back to see what the experts had to say. Or just observe. Our experts will answer as many of these questions as possible. You can ask questions privately, for consideration, by writing to

Surveys & Quizzes: If you like taking these things, we welcome you to participate. We want men's opinions for balance. If you don't like surveys & quizzes, just skip this section. But you might try one, and who knows, you might learn something new about yourself!

Discussions: Our Relationship Message Board and Forum allows our visitors to post messages regarding many topics. If you'd like to contribute, please go to the forum and register. You can start new "threads" of conversation, or just post a reply to someone else's thread. We do moderate the forum, so don't be crude. Invite your highest self to show up here. Remember that these are people who can mentor you. Treat them as friends.